Every one of us faces failure from time to time. Although this is a perfectly normal thing, at such a moment a fresh look at yourself and your life can be helpful. You don't become a failure because you don't have a billion dollars, a villa, or a yacht. Probably quite the opposite.
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Here are signs that tell you that you are doing well and on the right track:
Your relationship has become less stressful than it used to be. Troubled relationships are hard, complicated, and bad for your health and all aspects of your life. You've already lived it, worked through it, put it behind you. If you have had relationships with scandals in the past, but now you have become really important to yourself and no longer want to fight in your own home.
You're no longer embarrassed to ask for help and support. Asking for help is not a weakness but a strength. No one has achieved great success all alone. It takes teamwork to achieve high goals. If you realize this and ask for help when you need it, you grow as a person.
You become more strict. You no longer turn a blind eye to bad actions (both others and your own). A person must take responsibility for what he says or does.
You leave everything you don't like. No, it's not cruelty or selfishness. It's just that now you have the strength and confidence to say "no" to anything that doesn't bring you joy and doesn't help, but upset or frustrate you.
You are ok with your body. Sometimes you like yourself a lot, sometimes you don't, but overall you are ok. It's a calm, confident feeling: I have a body, the body has me.
You already know that mistakes and failures are part of progress. It is impossible to succeed in absolutely everything. There are no perfect people. Life consists of ups and downs. There are no setbacks in life - it's all about moving forward.
You have people you can trust. You may know them all your life, five years or ten days, but they have one thing in common: you trust them, they trust you. A pack of your own**.**
You can really be happy for other people.** You really feel good when other people have good things going on. The multiplication of happiness in space.
You listen to yourself more.** Doing things that deeply disgust you is slowly killing yourself. You set goals that inspire you because you hear yourself and follow your desires.
You are happy.** It doesn't matter how much you have in your account, how big your house is, where you fly to vacation. If you're happy, that's all it matters.
Even if not all of the above points are about you, do not give up. Be happy with what you have already achieved, and with time the rest will come. Just keep moving forward and upward.
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